Monday, 19 October 2009

A little trip down memory lane with Mieke




Mieke is turning 8 next Monday.  Eight seems really big.  It feels like yesterday when she was my clever little baby and now she is 8 - how did that happen?

Here are some photos from the past 5 years.  Mieke still with long hair in South Africa before Silke was born.




My little spoilt princess in her room in Bali Ridge, our lovely house which I still long for.



In hospital with Granny and newborn sister Silke - she was such a proud big sister!




The photo below was taken at our last lunch at Moyo Restaurant in Zoo Lake - we loved that place (African face painting included) and in summer you are sprayed with a cool mist while enjoying cocktails at the bar.  Never mind that the service was extremely sssslllloooowwww - its Africa after all!





See my two little cherubs below - Mieke's hair is short because she and her best friend Mia practised their hair cutting technique on each other.  It grew back it no time but it actually looked really cute short.




Mieke loves swimming and did really well with her swimming lessons with Auntie Margalo (Margaret) at the gym.  She could swim very well at three and do lenghts in all different strokes at four years old.  But alas I cannot say the same about the swimming teachers here in the UK.  They stand outside the pool shouting instructions to the kids.  So even with the school taking them for swimming lessons every week she still used to swim better in South Africa when she was 3!! 



Before we left for the UK we visited our favourite places - the Drakensberg and Sanlameer.  We stayed for a weekend at the Cathedral Peak Hotel in the Drakensberg and had a great time.  Did a lot of walking and picnicking in the forest and swimming in their rock pool.  We even had a babysitter one evening which was a rare treat.  Silke was about six months old on this trip.  We also loved Sanlameer as always and after travelling the world I think its still one of my favourite places.
















Mieke turned five in the October before we left for the UK.  We had a wondeful party for her at Kate's Cottage.  I think this was definitely her best party ever - sunshine, friends, jumping castle, slippy slide, lots of shiny balloons and a princess cake - what more could a girl want!










At her last Christmas play at the Cottage Montessori she was a fish - not sure which type of fish but she was a gorgeous little fish and did her dance perfectly.




We had a last Christmas with Ouma and Oupa in Betties Bay...







And then eventually - five year old Mieke's first day at school in the UK at Pewley Down Infant School in January 2006.

That face says only one thing:  WTF!!

...Am I doing here?

Where is my house?

Where is my room?

Where are my friends?

Where are my dog and cat?

Why is is so frigging cold here?

What do you mean I have to wear these scratchy clothes every day and go to school until 3pm!!




Well all is well that ends well!

Here she is starting her new school in Year 3 at Holy Trinity Junior School in September 2009.  She has come a long way and we are so proud of her!!






Eight years old, I can't believe it. And I am so incredibly proud of her, the way she adjusted to everything over the past nearly 3 years was amazing. Today I went to pick her up from school and there she was - playing hockey with avengeance. The smallest kid with 2 ponytails and an oversized mouthguard hurling herself unafraid into a throng of hockey sticks - I was very proud today.

And yesterday when she played a new piece on her violin, and when the teacher wrote she read her book beautifully and when she got two prizes last Friday at school and today when she made a forward roll on the beam in gymnastics. I am a very proud mom.

So let me take a moment and talk about Mieke and what she is about.

99 (or less) things about Mieke

Mieke is my firstborn my pride and joy.

When she was born her head was flat and her hip dislocated, but I knew in my heart that she was fine. So imagine my surprise when they sent a counsellor to see me about my baby's 'disability'.

Still, Mieke had to wear double cloth nappies for the first six weeks of her life - at first I was worried about having to wash these until I realized I could put the cloth nappies over the disposable ones.

When she was little she called a sweetie a footie.

She loved her milk when she was a baby and still does.

I breastfed Mieke for 18 months, she could speak sentences at 18 months. These things are unrelated as I'm still breastfeeding Silke at 3 and she is barely speaking sentences.

Mieke loves reading Horrid Henry books and Naughty Fairy books and some Roald Dahl. She reads very well for her age (well as her proud mum I think so).

Mieke is very proud of her South African heritage and tells everyone about it.

Most adults like Mieke as she is very well behaved. She is not always that well behaved at home though...

Since starting Year 3 at Holy Trinity, Mieke does Art, Violin, Hockey, Gymnastics, Kumon and Orchestra - she is very busy but loving it.

Mieke is good at art and very imaginative.

Mieke fights with Silke every day. But she also hugs and kisses Silke every day.

Mieke gets up each morning at 6:30 am to watch tv and sometimes to do her Kumon. She likes to see her dad in the morning before he goes to work and cries if he doesn't wake her up.

Mieke can walk for miles without complaining, wether in London or on holiday in Italy or Switzerland. As long as she gets an ice cream - she loves vanilla ice cream.

BAIE GELUK MET JOU 8STE VERJAARSDAG MIEKE!!!!

Ons is baie lief vir jou - jy is ons almal se NUMBER 1 - Soos Oupa altyd se.



Sunday, 6 September 2009

Mieke's last days at Pewley - school trip, garden gang, leavers party, last day & new rabbit

Before the holidays I had such a hectic time with stuff at school that I did not blog about Mieke's last days at Pewley, so here goes.

Trip to RHS Gardens Wisley:
First I went with her on a class trip to Wisley.  It was probably one of the hottest days of the year (around 32 degrees) and although I would not normally complain, walking outside in the hot sun with naughty complaining kids is NOT the best way to enjoy a hot summers day.




But off we went in search of sticks and stones and petals and other obscure things we could later use to make a piece of art with.  The kids then had to work in a team and decide what they are going to make and then put it together on the ground.  This was in the way of a certain artist whose name I can't remember (sorry Mrs Tester) but he only used natural materials and made the art in nature, only to be blown away or melted or washed away by the sea shortly afterwards.

The kids in Mieke's group made a fire.  No not a real one - they used rocks and sticks and then orange and red coloured leaves to make the flames.  It was okay - nothing exciting and they enjoyed messing it up afterwards more than making it.  I also noticed Mieke wasn't very into working with the group - she really preferred to do her own thing.  So afterwards she took some grasses which was shaped in a circle and used it to make a nest, with round pebbles inside as eggs, and little feathers surrounding the nest - it was really sweet.


The next day or week (who can remember) we went to the park and she made a face with leaves which I thought was quite good.


We love the park - first we go in the splash pool if its warm enough, then for a play and then rush to get ice cream which we have in the rose garden - lovely...


Peter Rabbit:
After long deliberation and me putting it off as long as possible, we eventually got a pet - a male rabbit called Peter Rabbit.  It was between him and a rat, so I chose the rabbit:

The girls really adore him although he frustrates Silke as he doesn't like to be held.  He bares it for a few minutes then hops away.  He is a house rabbit which means we keep his cage in the house and for exercise we let him out his cage and then WE get a lot of exercise chasing him around and trying to get him back into his cage.


He chews anything he can find but especially enjoy my photo albums and important documents which he can shred into a thousand little pieces.  But he is quite entertaining and very cute and fun to play catch with.

Garden Gang:
Mieke attended Garden Gang every second Tuesday at Pewley.  The school has its own allotment where they grow herbs and veggies and sometimes flowers which never grow.  Mieke loved it - sometimes she brought some rhubarb or potatoes home and she probably know more about gardening than I do.  But then she knows more about a lot of stuff than I do.

Pewley Leavers Party:
The Year 2's had a Leavers Disco in the school hall - I discovered Mieke is quite a disco bunny just like her mummy!!  We had a lot of fun dancing together when the played YMCA and Greece - luckily Werner wasn't there otherwise he would've died of shame.
The DJ asked the kids what comes after Y and they (being very clever and all) said Z.  He then asked the parents and one piped up the correct answer which was M!!  Like in YMCA.
Mieke had a great time with her friends until one of the boys hit her on the head with a football - boys always know how to ruin a great party!!
Last Day at Pewley:
Here is Mieke on her last day in Blue Class at Pewley.   Boehoe - she obviously was not as sad as I was and had a Great Day!!
She received a Pewley Pen and Bookmark and a Enid Blyton book as leaving gifts from the school.  Here she is all grown up reading her new book - finished it in a week:


Summer Walk:
Just before the end of term in Summer Pewley has the Summer Walk where the whole school, teachers and helping parents walk from the school to the Downs.  At the Downs the kids sat down and Richard (the head teacher) told the bible story of how Jesus fed 5000 people with one loaf of bread.  Then we all walked further - past the farm with all the horses and through a forest until we reached a campsite where all the kids had a play.
 

It was a lovely morning in a beautiful setting and even though it was when Werner was in hospital I enjoyed being there.

And I just realized why I am not working and not earning a living.  It is so that I can be there with Mieke and Silke at all these moments in their lives - it is worth more than all the money in the world.

Monday, 31 August 2009

Beautiful Switzerland Trip Report last bit

Thought I'd better finish my very long trip report before tomorrow as school starts on Thursday, so lots to do...

Day 4: Monday
On Monday my adventurous side took over and we decided to take the cable car further up the mountain and have lunch at the restaurant called Bergrestaurant Grotzenb├╝el, and also do some walks to search for Dwarf Baartli. 

Me being decidedly unfond of heights and vehicles moving in the air, my heart really raced as we walked up to the gondelbahn station as they call it.  But the girls were so excited that I tried to curb my unenthusiasm.   We got into this yellow little cubicle and at first I was perturbed that it was swinging even though we were standing still.  Werner pointed out to me that they were all swinging slightly and it was nothing to worry about.  Soon enough we were off and it was actually not that bad.  The cable car at Table Mountain is much worse.  This one does not go really high off the ground even though you are going higher up in the moutains, so its not too scary.



When we got there we decided to first look for Dwarf Baartli's cottage and then his cave.  Dwaarf Baartli is a very elusive dwarf that lives in Braunwald.  He has a cave, 2 houses / cottages, an Edelsteengespalte (like a mine where he gets his jewels from) and a throne that one can look for.  These walks are aimed at children, but to be honest they are not easy or closeby at all.  I struggled, Werner struggled because he had to carry Silke most of the time, Mieke struggled because she wanted to find the £$£$%^ cave and we couldn't - at first!! 



But up we went in our big search - passing cows with bells and the most astonishing scenery - another world.  We first found the Edensteengespalte which was like a cave tunnel and it it had a spade and a pick and a big red ruby stuck in the rock wall (unfortunately too high too reach!).  There was also a book for Mieke to write in (Mieke and Silke Nel from South Africa was here - sorry UK) and some other stuff a dwarf might use.



After catching our breath we went in search of his cottage.  This was a very cute wooden cottage with his little bed, desk and chair, plate and cup and of course the book to write in.  Though Snow White has obviously not been in yet as the cottage was quite dirty.



We then decided to search for the cave - which turned out to be most elusive and really really very far.  We trudged along not always knowing if we were still going the right way, and Mieke getting more annoyed by the moment - she wanted the cave and she wanted it now.  So over bridges and up hills we went.  Eventually we found a buggy left at a spot on the way where it could not go any further (how they got it there beats me!).  Then we found the owners of the buggy - 2 woman, a child and a baby (which was being carried) on their way back.  I realized I had nothing to complain about.  They told us in German that it wasn't far now - once you're that tired you magically understand foreign languages - and eventually we reached the cave.



To be honest I can't really remember what was in the cave, also some cute dwarf stuff, but walking back after relaxing a bit and Mieke doing her writing I realized that the search is really what is all about.  You don't know how long you've got to go, where it is, if you're going to make it - so when you do its just amazing!  And walking back is even better - the tiredness just magically disappears.  So we went to have a bad and expensive lunch at the restaurant (but it was still worth it) and the the kids had a play on the lovely playground right by the gondelbahn.  Its wonderful to watch them play in such a magnificent setting.



After lunch we went down with the cable car again, had a swim and really appreciated our lovely dinner that evening.

Day 5:  Tuesday
We did not want to have such a strenuous day again, but wanted to have a picnic somewhere for lunch.  So we went to town  - which basically consisted of a bakery, a grocery store, a fruit and veg store, a few clothing shops and a tourist office.  We bought some lovely soft milk rolls, cheese and cold meat which looked a bit like thinly sliced biltong.  We also bought beer which was extremely cheap at 90 Swiss Franc Cents (sorry don't know what their cents are called) which works out to about 50p a bottle!!



The I asked the lady at the tourist office where we could have a picnic which was not too far to walk.  She first showed me a spot on the map which was right in town where we were.  That was slightly too close but the next option seemed to be a bit of a walk away.  Well that was what we were  there for.



So off we went.  We took Silke's buggy with as far as we could, but eventually had to abandon it next to a tree and start the motivational talks with Silke - go Silke GO!  Our plan was to find Dwarf Baartli's house - I think this was his main residence - and then make a fire there just for fun and because we could.



We walked past the gondola station, up a hill, crossed a stream and had some ice cold spring water to drink - straight from the Alps.  Through a forest and further up the mountain we eventually found the house.  It was the best one yet - a lovely wooden house next to a river - and the girls loved it. 



Unfortunately another family got there before us and were already making a fire.  So we found a nice spot close to the water to have our picnic and attempt to make a fire.  But it had rained the previous night so all the wood was wet so we only managed a very small fire.  Werner and I tried our very best to make it bigger but no luck - don't know why we bothered because the kids weren't really paying attention to our fire making attempts. 



Silke in the meantime found the chocolates (that were on our beds) and while we weren't looking ate 3 of them - luckily leaving one for Mieke.  So we just had our picnic lunch and cheap beer, then washed our picnic blanket in the river (how cool is that), then started the suddenly shorter journey home.



What a lovely day...


Day 6:  Wednesday
We really wanted to see Luzerne, so on Wednesday we took the furnicular down to our car (but only after forgetting our car keys in the hotel and Werner having to go back to fetch them!) and started the drive to Luzerne.



I knew the route to Luzerne was via a mountain pass called the Klausen pass but I did not realize it would be so bad.  If I did I would have never, ever gone that way!  It was absolutely terrifying - mountain on one side, steep  mountainside on the other, no barrier, hair pin bends and cows (with bells for what its worth) in the road.  I wept of sheer terror while Werner and Mieke laughed at me.  I got back at them by taking the very long way around Zurich on the way back - could not go over that pass ever again!!



Luzerne was lovely - hot at 33 degrees and one of the most beautiful cities we've seen.  Clean and bright with its shimmering lake and the mountains in the background.  The shops were great and Werner bough jeans for CHF5!!  Silke got a little St Bernard dog and Mieke a porcelain Heidi doll.  The lady at the gift shop showed them all the different cuckoo clocks  - even Heidi ones - and we were mesmerized.  We had lunch at an Italian restaurant where Mieke and Silke played 'Lady and the Tramp' while eating their spaghetti. 



We would really love to come back to Luzerne one day as our time there was too short.



Day 7:  Thursday
So far we have had wonderful hot weather in Switzerland, so on Thursday we spent the day at the hotel.  Mieke loved the lady at the kiddies club, Katja, and spent the whole morning playing games with her.  She was Katja's favourite which was nice! 



We swam and Silke really gained a lot of confidence in the water - really starting to swim towards me.  I also read a little while sunbathing outside and peeking at the stunning view from my deck chair every now and then - I just never tired of it. 



Mieke also took the hotel goats for a walk around Braunwald with Katja and the other kids - it was a lot of fun but apparently the goats are really naughtly and don't go where they are supposed to!



Day 8:  Friday
Our last day in Braunwald... so sad.  We went for a long walk around Braunwald and discovered a whole part of the village we didn't know about.  It had its own shop and post office.  We also found out how milk gets delivered in the mountains and that one farmer is an avid reader and keeps his books on a built in shelf by his barn.



We also found some tipis in the forest but they were occupied by campers so we could only view them from afar.



That evening was movie night for the kids - my two loved it!  They made and decorated paper bags and made some popcorn.  Then they watched movies while we enjoyed our last dinner alone as a couple for quite some while - boe hoe.  But it was very nice.  After dinner it started to rain but I needed my walk so we borrowed a hotel umbrella and went for our last little walk in Braunwald.




Day 9:  Saturday
We enjoyed our last champagne breakfast and said goodbye to the everyone at the hotel, including the goats and the rabbits.  Then, as usual, we rushed to catch the 8:55am furnicular down to Linthal.  Silke left her doggy behind but the hotel has posted it to me.  Bye Bye Marchenhotel - you will be sorely missed!



We drove about an hour to a town called Rapperswill.  We visited the Kinderzoo which is a cute little zoo just for children.  Lovely giraffes, camels, elephants, monkeys, otters and tiny little horses.  The girls went on a pony ride and Silke kept shouting 'Giddy up, Bullseye!'.  We also enjoyed the sea lion show which was fabulous.



After the zoo we stopped in Rapperswill for lunch and another lovely surprise.  A beautiful town with a large pedestrianised old town right by the lake.  It has stunning old buildings and churches with vinyards between them - beautiful.  The lake again crystal clear and even though it was the first cloudy day of our holiday it was still stunningly beautiful.  We had lunch outside at a lovely little restaurant which seemed very popular.  It was on a square and while we were there a bride arrived to walk to the church which was on the other side of the square - what good luck!

We spent quite a lot of time in Rapperswill so only arrived in Strasbourg around 4pm.  This time we stayed in the Hotel Regent Petite France which was a lovely hotel - right in the centre of the La Petite France area with lovely river views.  We walked through the busy old town to the cathedral, passing many interesting little shops.  The cathedral itself is amazing - one of the largest I've ever seen.  There was a service on inside and but the cathedral is so huge that you can barely see the priest at the front!



We noticed that they had a light show on later that evening, so we decided to come back for that.  We then had dinner at a pizza place where the service was downright rude, but the pizzas were okay.  We went back to our hotel room and me and the girls tried out the jaquzzi bath!!  Then it was nearly 10pm and time to go back to the cathedral.  The lights and music show was spectacular, different parts of the cathedral was lit up in various colours while classical music played - magical.  Especially Silke seemed to love it.  Mieke found some of it a bit scary, as the cathedral really comes to life and unseen details are illuminated.  It was really worth the effort. 



After a disturbed night (due to a very loud wedding at the hotel - what's it with this holiday and weddings) but a very tasty breakfast with pancakes, we set off on the very, very long road home.  We wanted to avoid toll fees so set the Garmin to avoid them for us.  So instead of driving the boring road through France that we came with, we drove through Germany, Luxembourg, Belgium and eventually France!!   If you count Switzerland and the UK we covered 6 countries in 10 days - not bad...  And it took the same time and was much more scenic.

We were really glad to get home but Switzerland has definitely taken hold of my heart.